25 Weeks & a Pop and Gigi Visit

25 Weeks - Cauliflower or Eggplant...some
websites vary.  Coop is above average though...

HOW FAR ALONG?: 25 Weeks.  Wow I'm getting big...ger.  I feel like Coop has really popped out this week.  Sorry - no comparison from last week.  ;)  Almost didn't post this week's photo.  I am so embarrassed.

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?:  As of my 24 Week check up, 14 pounds...so probably 80 by now. :)

MATERNITY CLOTHES:  Yes.  Though I can wear pre-preggo jackets, yoga pants and skirts here and there - but that's all.  My Mom and I shopped this weekend - and while she looked darling in almost everything, I looked like a beached whale.  (Inside joke...)

STRETCH MARKS?:  Lil' one's on my behind.  Not on the belly yet - Yay.

SLEEP?:  Other than having to get up every hour to pee or to make a huge effort to roll over to my other side - I sleep well.  :)

BEST MOMENT THIS WEEK?:  Besides hearing Coop's heartbeat and learning he's growing and doing great...it was having the parents here.  Such an awesome visit.  See the RECAP below, if you're interested.

WORST MOMENT THIS WEEK?:  Hmm... Don't think I had a worst moment.  Kind of cool.  Was such a great week!  I guess it's not fun gaining weight, but it's all for my baby boy.

MISS ANYTHING?:  I didn't miss alcohol that much this week.  Am I growing up??  :)  Was kind of craving a hot dog, but I am managing without them.  I basically ate everything else this past week.  Awesome.  I DO miss running / jogging and working out as hard as I used to.  Also see RECAP.

MOVEMENT?:  He was SO active this week!  Not only can you feel him moving, but you can also see my tummy moving.  You can't tell what parts are sticking out, but you occasionally will see a few pokes.  It's hilarious.

FOOD CRAVINGS?:  Um, food.  Pretty much.  ;)  I have less room than I used to, so I eat LESS, but I still love everything (for the most part).  I had more of a sweet tooth than usual, but it may have been my Mama rubbing off on me...lol.  I also really wanted mexican food.

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?:  Still guac.  So weird.

LABOR SIGNS?:  Nada yet.

SYMPTOMS / MOODS?:  Happy lady.  Sometimes tired and can get annoyed at myself.  But I am a happy camper, and love my family SO much! :)  I have sciatic back issues, but they come and go.  I'm dealing - and Eric rubs it when it hurts.

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?: In-ish.  It will soon be flat.  Lord help me...again.

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?: On, snug, and not enjoying this humidity.

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?:  More company (next week), and then in July, my big ol' preggo self will be headed to AZ and CA with Foo for my Baby Shower!  Also...more immediately, I am looking forward to going to sleep tonight.  It's 9:20 AM, and I've already been up for 4 hours and 20 minutes.  

RECAP:  Gigi and Pop's Visit to Nashville:

My parents took a trip to Houston, traveled to Ono Island, to Perdido Bay, up through many parts of Alabama - and finally into Tennessee.  They enjoyed seeing friends and family, golfing the Robert Trent Jones courses, and of course...getting to Nashville to see Cooper...and us.  :)  

They arrived WEDNESDAY afternoon while we were at work (a day full of news - I'll get there later...maybe even another post...sigh), and played with the pugs.  We got home, hung out, and then after returning their rental, we dined at my Mom's favorite East Nashville restaurant: The Silly Goose.  Then my sweet tooth appeared out of nowhere, and we walked to Jeni's Splendid Ice Cream next door.  Oh.Em.Gee!  Heaven.    

The next day, THURSDAY, Eric and I headed to work while they enjoyed golf at Richland Country Club.  They played with some nice folks who invited all of us to dinner at Cinco de Mayo - not the best restaurant in town - but they were going for the fun, cheap mexi food and delish margs.  :)  We decided to go for it - but ended up just eating together, and saying hello to their new buddies on our way out.  My Mom may have met her new BFF.  Lol.  

FRIDAY rolled around, and as usual, Eric and I headed off to work.  Mom and Dad took the pugs on a walk at Radnor Lake and then met us for lunch at The Local Taco.  It was such a lovely day, weather-wise.  Then Mom and Dad wandered around town, shopped, and we met them at home where we cooked, and hung out.  We also played a round of dominoes.  I won.  :)  

The boys, err men, golfed at Gaylord Springs on SATURDAY, while us girls - haha - did a garage sale.  Out neighbor Chris told us that the community was having one THE NIGHT BEFORE, so Mom and I got as much together as we could and made it work!  We were all up at 6:00 AM - it was hilarious.  We ended up making money and getting rid of some crap lovely things we were going to give away anyway, so it was totally worth it (thank you Mom!).  Then Mom and I worked out...we were so good and proud of ourselves, ha!  I feel like we did well, but I miss working out the way I used to.  I would run, instead of the elliptical.  I would do a million crunches, now I don't think I can, and even if I could - what's the point??  ;)  I would lift heavier weights, but I have to lower the weight and do more reps now.  I would stretch more, but I can hardly bend over, let alone touch my toes.  Lol.  It's an adjustment, but I'll get back into the swing of things soon enough.  Anyway, it was a good workout - I had fun with Mama.  We met the boys for lunch at Kalamata's, and they headed home - while Mom and I did a little shopping damage.  :)  Just a lil'.  We went home, and relaxed a bit before heading to dinner in Cool Springs at Burger Up.  Yum yum.  After dinner, we went to Green Hills - made a stop at Nordy, and then went to The Bluebird Cafe for a show.  We saw Annie Mosher, Craig Carothers, Dave Berg and Tony Arata - some of Nashville's finest talent.  It was a tremendous show, and my parents were thrilled.  They're so cute - they get so excited about things like that.  I also got to introduce them to Annie - who is actually a friend of mine.  She's lovely, and such a sweetheart.  Also, ridiculously talented.  

SUNDAY got started with a hike at the trail near Hwy 100...I think it's called the Natchez Trace Trail...but I don't know for sure.  It's 2.5 miles, and it was sooo pretty.  It was really hot and humid, but the trees shaded us the whole time.  After the hike we went to brunch at Pancake Pantry.  It was between that, Barbara's and The Pfunky Griddle.  ;)  It was excellent as usual, and we were ALL grateful for the hike we'd just finished after we ate.  We shopped a little, got Father of the Bride 1 and 2 at Wal Mart (yes, I got my Dad in a Wal Mart!) and went home and relaxed a bit more.  We went and saw What To Expect When You're Expecting in Green Hills, which was...pretty much what I expected.  I didn't love it and some parts were downright too cheese-filled...but it was appropriate for our situation and Elizabeth Banks was highly entertaining.  "I'm just gonna call it.  Being pregnant sucks."  We had dinner at Taco Mamacita, which was super fun - then went home and walked the girls to Sweet Cece's for some fro yo.  We saw fireflies and enjoyed ourselves tremendously.  We watched FotB2 while Mom and I kinda worked on my baby registry online and Eric worked on his side job thing.  

MONDAY disappeared...it went by far too quickly.  We woke up and headed to Spring Hill for some golf.  I  just rode in the cart, but they all played.  It was SUCH a lovely day weather-wise...but no one really played their best golf.  We still enjoyed ourselves and had a good time.  Afterwards, we ate at J. Alexanders in Cool Springs and ran a few errands.  Mom treated me to a pedicure (I removed them from my budget and my feet looked a bit rough, and of course were swollen) and she got herself a mani shellac.  It was heavenly.  We grocery shopped and got ready for a BBQ at home, and played another round of dominoes.  I won (barely) again.  :)  Dad, your goal for next time is to break 300.  :)  Then, they began doin' laundry and packin' up - which all made me very sad.  Sad indeed.

TUESDAY morning crept up on me and I didn't like it one bit.  My alarm went off at 5:00 AM - and I took a bath, which was probably stupid because I almost fell asleep in it.  Eric was going to come with, but I decided to let him sleep - and I took my parents to the airport myself.  I miss them already.  

They're such wonderful, warm, loving, generous, fabulous people - and I wish I could see them all the time.  We were blessed with such fun times, amazing weather and it couldn't have come at better time for me.  Sometimes, no matter how old you are, you just need your parents.  They're almost back to Arizona now...and will head to my brother's birthday party on Thursday in CA.  Such travelers...  ;)  

I grabbed Eric and me Starbucks on the way back from the airport as my mind was filled with thoughts (and exhaustion)... I figured we'd need extra caffeine today - well, as much as I can have, anyway...and now...here we are.  Tuesday at work.  HOW WAS YOUR MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND?  

In closing, thank you to our soldiers, past and present, for your sacrifice.  In particular, thank you to both of my Grandpas, my cousin's new husband, some friends, and a few more family members - you know who you are.  

Until next time... That's all folks!          

     

Post-Doc Appt and Glucose Testing

I started the appointment with the usual...restroom stop, checking my heart rate and such, and stepping on the dreaded scale.  I was right.  I have put on 14 freakin' pounds since my first appointment.  Before I stepped on the scale, I told the nurse (who is such a sweet girl) I had been having major anxiety.  She checked my heart rate / pulse  and was like, "Oh man, you're right.  Your heart is racing.  I guess you are having anxiety...just relax.  It's 14 total, but you hold it well.  I can't tell..."  Uh-huh...sure.    

I waited for Dr. Redden, who came in all smiles!  She is fabulous...seriously.  (She is 1 month ahead of me, looks amazing, and so happy!!!)  She hugged me, and told me that everything was looking good so far.  

She measured my tummy, and we heard Cooper's heartbeat - 160bpm.  She told me that she thinks he is about 2 pounds right now, so "a big boy."  Haha!  Oh Lord, help me.  

We talked about weight, and she said that everyone is different, and I can still stay within the 25-35 pound range.  Just to be mindful (like I am currently being) of what I eat, drink and to keep exercising.  I told her I work out 3-4 times a week, walk my dogs daily, and have been fairly good with meals - eating smaller meals more frequently instead of 3 big meals, etc.  She asked about drinks - which for me has been WATER with an occasional Coke Zero.  That's it!  (If I am feelin' fancy at a restaurant, I MIGHT get a cranberry juice.  But I think that's been like, twice.)  She assured me I am doing well and as long as I am being healthy, it's okay.  She said sometimes the placenta weighs a lot, sometimes days are heavier than others, etc...so not to worry.  Clearly, I am worried, but it was nice to hear.  I just have to be extra careful since we have visitors coming - and we'll be eating out a lot.  Dr. Redden warned me that most meals at restaurants have more than your daily allowance of calories in one meal.  I will be ordering well, and boxing up at least half.  Phew.  Okay, done with that topic.  

Then we went over Coop's ultrasound report from last time:  Everything looked normal.  YAY COOP!

We discussed a few other things like how I have to take Rogam (or is it a shot?) at the next appointment since Eric's and my blood types aren't the same, the Glucose test results would be in in a few days, do we want to circumcise the baby after birth, and have we started interviewing / or have we picked our baby's primary care doctor..?  And...a few other top secret things, lol.  So, since Eric didn't come to this appointment, we will chat about a few things over the coming weeks.  Lots to think about, and plan for - that's for sure.  

She hugged me g'bye and was as darling as ever.  While I am EXTREMELY happy for her baby joy, I am a little sad that she will likely not be the doctor delivering baby Cooper.  I adore her.  

Anyway, then I headed over to the Glucose Test at the Lab.  Man I hate needles and giving blood.  Yuck.  But I did fine, and gave 4 vials.  They'll test all the normal stuff, for HIV (recommended-but I know I am safe!) and she wanted to test my thyroid because of my heart palpitations - that yes, I am still having...so weird.  It is affecting my hearing as well.    

Results comin' soon.  I hope I pass the glucose test so I don't have to go back for the 3 hour one.  Fingers crossed! :)     

24 Weeks

Will not be in this weeks photo.
Feeling extremely self-conscious.
Plus, I am not loving my new hair...

HOW FAR ALONG?:  24 Weeks-16 to go.  Still a month-ish before entering the 3rd Trimester.  When does the 3rd Trim start....Some places say 27 weeks, some say 28???  Time appears to be standing still, yet somehow I am growing more huge by the second.  

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?:  I'll find out at the doctor tomorrow.  I'd guess 15 pounds total...maybe more.  Never felt more hideous in my life.  I am really not looking forward to the answer of this question.  Let's just say I know it will be more than the last visit...and it makes me sad.   

MATERNITY CLOTHES:  Yeah, and they're getting more and more snug...like maybe too snug.  I should have purchased a size up...not smart of me to assume I'd be a cute, skinny, preggo.  I should know better...I know my body.    

STRETCH MARKS?:  On the bum.  I also have lovely cellulite to welcome to the "party." 

SLEEP?:  Pretty well.

BEST MOMENT THIS PAST WEEK?:  Eric and I had an awesome week...just in general.  Nothing really out of the ordinary, but we got to spend a lot of time together - Go on dates, and hang out.  We went to Yolo's, to the movies (saw The Avengers), shopped a little (got Coop some really cute clothes), and went to CPK!  We saw some friends, Eric played in a golf tournament and in a softball game, I talked to an old friend from CA, got a new 'do (darker and about 5-6" shorter), went to the gym 4 times this week...it was just a good week.  Not to mention, the weather was lovely and fireflies are starting to come out.  

My new hair looks a little purple
because of the wall.  

Coop's wardrobe thus far.
Most were gifts, some were purchased by us.

WORST MOMENT THIS PAST WEEK?:  Weight.  Gain.  Central.  I'm so nervous for tomorrow...and for the rest of this pregnancy.  

Also, Miss Banjo is still having issues.  She's had multiple little things wrong with her lately - rash, bladder infection, red bump on anus (tmi?), a potty accident on our *new* bed late last night...and of course, her knee issues.  She is a mess, poor lil' thing.  Hopefully Cooper will be less high maintenance than Banjo. 

Our cuddle-bug fur-babies, Lele & Banjo.

Finally, I have been cleaning our house and it looks like I've done nothing.  I don't know if I am nesting, but I don't think that's what it is...yet.  I am just annoyed that our house has so much junk in it...too much stuff.  Plus pug hair and dust...are EVERYWHERE.  Okay.  That's all.      

MISS ANYTHING?:  Duh.

MOVEMENT?:  He hasn't been as active this past week.  I hope my lil' nugget is okay.  

FOOD CRAVINGS?:  CPK BBQ Salad, Pop Tarts, Cheese, Sweets (gotta get this under control).

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?:  Not really.  I haven't tried guac in a while, and prob won't - but I did have a shrimp taco this weekend, and it was tasty! 

LABOR SIGNS?:  Nothing.

SYMPTOMS / MOODS (I'm combining moods & symptoms now)?:  Generally very happy.  No major mood swings this week.  ;)  I am a little overly self conscious about the weight gain, so that has probably made me a little moody, if I am being honest...  But no incidents or funny stories to share, lol.  Also, there is still a little back pain in the lower right area, but it's manageable for now.  Still contemplating a chiro visit.  Pumped to report that I did not have a migraine this past week!  Woo!

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?:  In.  Large.  Stretched.  Yikes.

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?:  On and snug.

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?:  I'd say the doctor's appointment, but I am actually seriously filled with major anxiety.  Not only because of the dreaded scale, but also it's the appointment where they do  my glucose testing.  I really hope my body is processing sugar okay.  After that HCG diet, I am truthfully not sure how my body is handling ANY of this.  I AM looking forward to seeing or at least hearing Cooper at this appointment though.  My little babe.        

I also am for reals looking forward to my folks arriving Wednesday night, and staying through Tuesday (early morning).  It'll be a fun-filled week of hanging out, good meals, the Bluebird Cafe, a movie (What To Expect When You're Expecting), hiking and working out, shopping and finishing up the registry, golf, etc.  We'll be busy, and it'll be awesome.  

Sidenote:  I kind of don't want to see WTEWYE because I saw the movie posters when I was at the theater this weekend...and, I'm sorry, but those girls ARE NOT pregnant (Cameron Diaz, Brooklyn Decker and Elizabeth Banks...umm hello, gorgeous!).  They are not swollen, and fat and growing in places they never even knew they could grow.  I feel like it might make me angry.  Anyone else?  Haha.    

23 Weeks & Eric's Surprise Party

I love Eric's little drawings of the fruits each week.

HOW FAR ALONG?:  23 Weeks.  17 to go!  (121 Days until Due Date!)

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?:  About 10+ pounds.  Probably more bc I had a ton of sweets this weekend. (See Best Moment for details.) 

STRETCH MARKS?:  Just a few light ones on the booty...Not on my belly yet. 

SLEEP?:  Sleeping okay - not thru the night, but well enough.  When I wake up, I have to be sure not to sit up too quickly.  If I do, I get this sharp, shooting pain in my stomach that literally hurts so badly, it takes my breath away.  Also...Mom's...I always start the night on my side...but end up on my back.  Should I be worried?

BEST MOMENT THIS WEEK - Eric's 29th Birthday Surprise Party!:  It was Eric's 29th Birthday - and I love spoiling that man...so I threw him a Surprise Party - theme:  Whiskey Tasting!  Note:  It is really difficult to throw a "surprise" party when you live with the person.  It was, however, a success.  

He started the day bright and early golfing with a guy he knows through the Nashville Amateur Tour.  Then, I took him to lunch at Saffire - yum.  We came home, relaxed and watched a movie of his choice, since "we had a busy night ahead - I was going to cook him dinner, then we were going to see The Avengers at night."  Ha!  He picked the Foo Fighters rock-umentary, "Back and Forth."  It ended perfectly, timing-wise.  His friends came by and took him out for a few beers while I "began cooking" - aka, set up. 

I had snacks (hummus and carrots, cheese and crackers, candy, buncha crunch, cookies and creme chex mix, trail mix, chicken wings, etc...), decor, lots of adult beverages, etc...and all of our friends came on time.  It was awesome.  Then, Eric and the boys came back, and he said, "Aww, I kinda' knew it."  Or something like that.  He said that he had a feeling on the way back from the bar that something was up.  BUT - he didn't know beforehand, didn't know it was a Whiskey Tasting, or who'd be there.  I still count that as a success!

Guess The Whiskey...The Tasting Party Game.

The Whiskey Tasting was awesome.  We had over 15 to taste, but I limited it to 11 - some were duplicates, and some arrived too late.  :)  The winner of the guessing game was Josh - and the winner of the impromptu "Who Knows Eric Best" game was John.  Dinner at Toyama was...cool in theory, but failed in reality.  Ha!  There were about 15 of us around this huge teppanyaki table...so seating was cool.  The sushi took forever, and sadly, our buddies Jon and Marion didn't even get theirs by the time the entire table was done.  They were troopers though.  Eric really had fun, had some beer, saki, and great sushi (I had filet and chicken - chicken was NOT good!).  Then we headed back home for more whiskey and hanging out...and CAKE!  Oh the cake.  It was AWESOME!  Thank you to the FABULOUS Trish of Frilly Milly Events / Sweets for making my design look and taste so frigging good!!!  

The fabulous cake by Frilly Milly Sweets.

Happy Birthday, Eric!

The Post-Dinner Group.

People left between 10:30 PM - 12:30AM.  It was such a fun party, and I am so grateful to all of our friends for coming and contributing to Eric's birthday.  We are so lucky to be surrounded by such awesome, awesome friends.  

I also have to say, my first "Almost" Mother's Day was fun, too.  We laid around ALL day, and then he cooked me homemade Mac and Cheese (and a salad) for dinner.  :)   We also exchanged foot rubs, played with our puppies, and watched movies all day.  It was perfection.  

WORST MOMENT THIS WEEK?:  Something not involving me, and certainly not anything I want to publicly mention on this blog.  I'll just say, some choices people make in life really make me sad and disappointed.  That said, I'm sincerely grateful for my life, my morals, and the choices that I make.  I just feel for people...crazy.    

MISS ANYTHING?:  Let me just say that Eric's party was a Whiskey Tasting...so, sipping Diet Coke and Water wasn't like...ideal...but I still had a freaking blast, and was happy to be the DD. 

MOVEMENT?:  Oh I just love feeling baby Coop move.  Eric has still only felt him kick once, but this little booger is getting stronger - so it won't be long before he gets to feel all that I feel.   

FOOD CRAVINGS?:  Pop Tarts.  Organic Multi Grain Squares by Cascadian Farms.  Chocolate.  Umm... Everything.  Even salads.  I just wish I craved more of them.  ;)  

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?:  Just shrimp and guac.  I am getting a little better around them though.  

LABOR SIGNS?:  Not yet - but I am going to start leaving this question in for 2 reasons:
1.  Braxton Hicks could kick in at any moment.  2.  Eric was 2 months pre-mature.  

SYMPTOMS / MOODS?:  Exhausted, but oh so happy!!!  I love my little life.  I do have back pain on my lower right side, and nasal congestion...but I am managing just fine.  I imagine the back pain will get worse...so I am thinking about making a lil' trip to a chiropractor.  We'll see.  

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?:  In & large.

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?:  On.  I do have a fake one for when the time comes.  

HAPPY or MOODY MOST OF THE TIME?:  Happy camper.  Don't even think I had a crazy-preggo chick moment this week...?  Right babe?  

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?:  My next doc appointment on the 23rd where they'll test me for gestational diabetes and how well my body is processing sugar (Glucose test)...Really hoping that goes well.  My parents get in that night, too!  They'll be in NashVegas for almost a week - it'll be nice to have them here.  Then in June, Eric's folks will visit...  Then in July - A shower for Baby Coop in California with family and friends.  I am so thrilled.   :)

New Question Addition...lol...Not looking forward to:  August in Nashville... Lol.  It's going to be hot, humid and I will be huge.   Maybe that will be the new title of my blog:  Hot, Humid and Huge.  ;) 

Mother's Day 2012

For Mother's Day this year, I sent my mom a hilarious card (at least I think it's funny), and bought her a small token of my appreciation to show her how awesome I think she is.  If I was a bazillionaire, the gifts would be endless.  Sadly, I am not.  Eric and I are working on budgeting and preparing for my first Mother's Day gift...Cooper, so I cannot shower my Mom with all of the things she so deserves.  Instead, I thought I would share with her, and whoever would like to read, just how much I adore her, how much I have learned from her, and in general - how incredible she is.

Mom, every day you are a shining example of the joy of selflessness and eternal positivity.  You give your love, laughter and positive spin on life so freely to everyone - which are truly the best gifts.
You taught me that having a positive outlook, even in the most difficult of situations, is the right outlook to take because negativity gets you nowhere.
You taught me that love is important, and can heal almost any wound.
You taught me that laughter truly is the best medicine.  I remember little moments where you and I would get "the giggles" and not stop laughing for minutes on end...your laugh is infectious, and I will treasure it always.    

Mom, you made / make life so much FUN!  Even when we were little, I remember how much fun we had as a family and with our friends.  Whether it was you creating our Halloween costumes from scratch, or taking us to endless soccer / dance / football / softball / theater / swimming / etc... practices, decorating our homes for various holidays, opening our advent calendars for Christmas, going on camping trips with interesting meal attempts, going to New York together, going abroad together, going on shopping adventures together - so much more...You were always "the cool mom"... the involved Mom... the Mom I always wanted around.  Isn't is amazing that even though I am a lot slightly older, I still see you the same way:  Fun, creative, cool, involved, adventurous, generous, loving...and I still want you around.  You're my best friend.  I'm pretty lucky.

Mom, you are an incredible teacher, just like Grandpa (Grandma, too).  I've learned what it means to be a great wife, a loyal friend and soon I will put into practice what I've learned from you about being an awesome mother.  I've learned that there is a positive in every situation, to focus on that and not dwell on the negative.  I've learned to genuinely enjoy every moment I have and to be grateful for every day that God gives me - to trust in Him in all I do.    I've learned that life can be and should be fun!  I've learned what it means to overcome certain obstacles, to learn and grow from those obstacles, and to move on as a better, stronger woman.  I've learned manners.  I've learned gratitude.  I've learned to love my family with all of my heart.  I've learned not to give up, and to keep searching for my purpose.  I've learned proper grammar (haha, that sometimes I choose not to use on this blog - sorry).  ;)  I've learned...and still learn...so much from you.  Thank you for being such an excellent teacher.

People often say they can tell you and I are Mother & Daughter because we are so alike, and that I resemble you...what an honor that is!  I am so lucky to have you as my Mother, and feel so blessed that Cooper gets to have you as his Gigi.

Thank you for all you've given me...nothing is ever overlooked or taken for granted.  You are such a special woman, and I love you to the moon and back!  

To my sister, Kimi:

It's official, you are Superwoman...I am convinced.

I hope that on this Mother's Day you get a moment to relax and take some time for yourself.  You are truly the definition of the word selfless.  You always put others before yourself, and that is so admirable.  I hope that I end up half the Mom (well, woman really) you are, because you are truly incredible and such an inspiration.  Thank you for all you've done for me... after all, you did help raise me.  ;)  I love you very much, and am so grateful that we are not only sisters, but friends.  I count myself very lucky to have you in my life.  You're amazing and lovely...and I still look up to you like I did when you were in High School, I was in Junior High, and I wanted desperately to borrow your white leather fringed jacket...because you were the coolest.  You still are.  :)

Love you, sister.

22 Weeks - 18 To Go!

Baby Cooper weighs at least 1 whole pound and is the size of a Papaya / Spaghetti Squash!
Please excuse the terrible angle and the fact that my huge body is casting a shadow on the chalkboard...Yikes. :(  
This dress is anything but flattering, but it's comfy.  That counts for something, right?

HOW FAR ALONG?:  22 Weeks..."Only" 18 to go.  Seems like 18 weeks should be waaay less than 4 1/2 months.  ;)  Just saying.  A girl can dream, eh?

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?:  9-10 pounds...Feels like 80.

MATERNITY CLOTHES:  Yes.  I got a cute dress for my baby shower in July (no, not the one I am wearing in this photo) - and my mom is sending me a few items too.  :)  Who says you can't be a cute well-dressed hippo?

STRETCH MARKS?:  Not really yet.

SLEEP?:  Definitely cannot sleep through the night.  Every time I roll over, I'm up.  And usually have to use the restroom.

BEST MOMENT/S THIS WEEK?:  Eric and I made a big decision!  I can't divulge it right now, but it's big, and it's exciting!

Also, we got our tickets home in July for the 4th and for Cooper's and my baby shower!  I will be 30.5 weeks preggo and in 110* heat, but I will be with family and friends, celebrating Eric's and my little boy.  I'm pumped.

Finally, my Banjo hasn't been feeling well (see "worst moment" for details), and on Sunday - we had an awesome cuddle sesh.  It was awesome.  I love my little pugs.

Miss Banjo taking a lil' pug snooze on Cooper / my belly.  Happy, happy girl.

WORST MOMENT THIS WEEK?:  Ha, well Saturday I had to run a lot of super secret birthday errands, and Eric was going to be golfing so it was perfect, timing wise...Or so I thought.  He took off at 6:45 AM, and turns out...my wallet and car key were in his glove compartment.  So...I was stuck.  I was going to walk to Starbucks and try to make the best of it, but I didn't even have a wallet to buy anything.  Note to self:  Stash a few bucks here and there around the house.  Oh and...don't be an idiot.  I ended up cleaning and organizing our whole downstairs and got rid of 2 garbage bags full of crap...which really, probably needed to happen...but it wasn't by choice.  Lol.  I was annoyed, but if that's as bad as my week can get, I cannot complain!

Also, Banjo has been acting a little "off" again.  She hasn't been her usual, overly perky self.  I'm pretty sure that I have mentioned the fact that she needs knee surgery on both of her knees and that she is probably in terrible pain, right?  Well, we have yet to take her in for the operations because she's been so active and happy.  We have to take her in soon...Poor lil' girl.

Eric and I decided that Banjo is the best dog in the world, and Lele is the sweetest dog in the world.  We got lucky with 2 of the most awesome pups...and also the most expensive. ;)  

MISS ANYTHING?:  Maybe I'll delete this question until I come up with something different to say...

MOVEMENT?:  Oh yeah.  Lil' Coop is having a blast in there.  Or he hates it.  Either way - he's quite a mover!

FOOD CRAVINGS?:  Everything.  Everything in sight.  :)

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?:  Same ol'.

GENDER?:  Baby Boy Cooper.

SYMPTOMS / MOODS?:  A little back pain, congestion and headaches...but I'm still happy!

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?:  In, and stretching so wide.  It's huge!

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?:  Still on...getting tighter.  It's weight gain, and also the humidity...I swear. ;)

HAPPY or MOODY MOST OF THE TIME?:  Happy!

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?:  Eric's birthday is this coming Saturday, and I have a lot of fun things planned.  (I absolutely love holidays and birthdays - I'm such a planner / coordinator!  I love making people feel special, and I can't wait to make this day ALL ABOUT HIM!)  I will be sure to tell you all about it next week!

Then of course both of our parents visits are coming up this and next month, followed by our AZ/CA trip for the shower... :)  Weee!!!  Hurry up, September!!!

21 Weeks

HOW FAR ALONG?:  21 Weeks.  Officially over the 1/2 way mark!  Baby Coop is the size of a banana (ew!!!) carrot and is almost 1 whole pound.  

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?:  As of my last doctor's visit, I've gained 9 huge stinkin' pounds.  

MATERNITY CLOTHES:  Yeah - I can still pull off a few pre-preggo tops though, and my yoga pants.  

STRETCH MARKS?:  Not on the belly yet.  My behind is getting there.  :(  

SLEEP?:  While the body pillow is helping, I am back to not sleeping through the night.  Bummer.  

BEST MOMENT/S THIS WEEK?:  We found out Baby is a BABY BOY!!!  See our post about finding out Baby is Baby Boy Cooper HERE.  We sent our parents gender reveal cookies, with colored filled centers to reveal the gender of Baby K, and I think the cookies turned out excellent.  The office got the leftovers...and Eric and I may have had one or two.  ;)    

Our parents reactions were adorable - and everyone in our families and our buddies are so happy and excited about our little bundle of baby boy joy!!!  Eric and I even went out last night on an impromptu date - we bought Cooper a few onesies, and had a nice dinner out together.  Better take advantage of that while we can, right?  

Also, Eric completed his 1st 1/2 Marathon!  I am SO proud of him and his awesome accomplishment!  It was so high energy and he was so happy when he finished.  He says he really enjoyed it and he'd totally do it again, which if you know Eric, is a big deal.  I am absolutely doing it with him next year - Anyone wanna babysit Cooper? ;)  

WORST MOMENT THIS WEEK?:  Waking up at 5:00 AM to take him to the starting line, and realizing that soon, 5:00 AM will be "sleeping in."  Lol - JK.  Probably...still just the budget thing.  Sometimes being a grown up sucks.  ;)

MISS ANYTHING?:  My answer hasn't changed. 

MOVEMENT?:  Yep!  Even though my placenta is in the front of my belly (tmi?), I can feel him move a ton.  Cooper is an active little guy.  Hopefully he'll calm down a bit when he arrives.  Fat chance, huh?  

FOOD CRAVINGS?:  Anything I can get my chubby fingers on.  ;)  I'm working hard on not indulging on every single little craving, and trying to get my focus of eating very healthy back!  Going on vacation really messed me up.  That and baking those crazy cookies for my family and co-workers.  ;)  Yum! 

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?:  Well I was able keep some shrimp down recently...and avocado on a sandwich...but, I'm still grossed out by guac.  And a few other things...it varies day by day.  

GENDER?:  BABY BOY COOPER ANDERSON KAMBESTAD!!!  :)  

SYMPTOMS / MOODS?:  Happy girl.  

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?: In.  Belly ring is officially out.  Had to remove it for the ultrasound, and just left it out.

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?: On.

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?:  Eric's birthday which is sneaking up on us, registering for Baby Boy, my folks and Eric's folks visiting, and my Baby Shower in JULY!!!  I think we're going to get a few days in AZ before the shower in CA!!  Fun trip ahead!  Eeeee!!! I love being so happy!!!    

Why My Husband Is Awesome...

Random post today...please bear with the cheese.  

I am feeling such an overwhelming amount of love for my amazing husband that I felt compelled to write about him and just how awesome he is.  I obviously can't list all the reasons why he is awesome, there are far too many.  So, I decided I will just list the first 5 - okay 10 - that come to mind, even though I know I could list about a million things.  

(I was going to go super specific on these, but I found myself increasing the number of reasons from 5 to 10 to 20...etc...so I narrowed them down and made them a little more general, that way I could list more specific descriptions - Cheater, cheater...I know.  I am so lame.  Lol.)     

1.  Let's start with the most recent news:  He just completed his first 1/2 Marathon!  

That's 13.1 y'all!  We started training together in like...November.  Then, January 1, I found out I was preggo and stopped training so intensely.  I do the elliptical instead of run.  It would have been so easy for him to stop training, and just workout like I was doing - but he stuck with it.  And this past weekend, he finished The 2012 Country Music Half Marathon in Nashville with an amazing finish time of 2:49!  I am so proud of him.  

2.  He cooks for me.  

Like...how lucky can one girl get?  Our household isn't the stereotypical "Southern home."  I don't cook and clean (oops) every day and get him his slippers with a beer in hand.  (I do make him drinks and treats tho...lol.)  We split the chores fairly evenly - which has been pretty nice.  I will occasionally cook and I do all the baking, but he rocks it in the kitchen almost every night of the week - always asking me if I want anything in particular, especially now that I am pregnant.  And if I have a craving, he goes and gets it for me...  I mean.  Seriously???  Lucky lady, right here.

Just 1 example:  His famous chili - haven't had this in a while...it may be time.
Another fav of mine:  his jalapeno pesto! 
Okay, this preggo is hungry.

3.  He's handsome.  

(If he reads this, he'll probably kill me...but whatever, he is.)  I am still so very attracted to him, and hope that our son gets his good looks.  (And of course his intelligence and kind heart, too!)  

4.  He works hard.  

Eric has a full time job that is pretty demanding, but has taken it upon himself to work a part time gig from home at night doing freelance web development for another company.  (Still makes time for me, too.  He's Superman.)  He is working so hard to save money so that our life as a little family can be as amazing and stable as possible.  He is also trying to learn as much as he can so that he can stay sharp and in demand in his ever-changing, fast-paced industry!  

5.  He plays hard and enjoys life.  

(This will be a long one.)  There is a time and a place to be serious...and I'm pretty sure he lost the directions to that time and place.  ;)  He will occasionally quote the character Russell (David Spade) from the TV show Rules of Engagement - when people say, "Are you ever serious?"  Russell responds, "Tried it once...wasn't funny."  Ha.  He can be serious when the time is right, but he is certainly a light hearted, mostly carefree guy.  He's hilarious, so much fun, and keeps busy with hobbies that he loves.  

He plays in a softball league, he's in an amateur golf tour tournament, he goes out shopping and to movies with me, he still plays and loves the drums (talenteddddd!!), he's making his own beer (we'll do wine together once I am able to enjoy it!), we work out together, we go on hikes, he plays with our puppies which is stinkin' adorable, he wants to get bikes, etc.  But he is also content having a relaxing / lazy day with me at home.  Love it.

He genuinely loves to enjoy life and have a great time - which isn't something everyone can say.  I admire his positive attitude and love of life!

Our pups - Ukulele and Banjo with my Foo.

6.  He loves me.  

Best feeling ever.  There are days that I feel worthless, hideous, or even just worry too much - and somehow he manages to read the situation, uuuuusually correctly, and make me feel better.  He constantly tells  me that he loves me and how beautiful I am.  He rubs my feet and back any time I want.  He watches The Bachelor with me (umm, hello, it must be love!).  He makes me laugh every day.  He tries so hard to surprise me...and so much more.  I am so lucky in love.  

7.  He loves family.  

He loves my family and fits in like he's always been a part of it.  It's so easy for him to get along with and feel comfortable around them.  He also loves his family, and is growing to be more and more like his Dad every day.  Ha - hilarious.  Cooper is in for a treat. 

8.  He surrounds himself with amazing friends, and gets along with EVERYONE.  

Not much else to say here.  Self-explanatory, right? ;)  We love our friends...they're awesome.  I think it's also pretty cool that Eric is so laid back, that he gets along with just about anyone.    

9.  He has dreams and goals.  

While he's perfectly content living life "in the now," he has dreams and goals for our future.  I love when we have our little talks about what we think our life together holds for us - what we want to do, where we want to live, what kind of houses we like, where we should travel, how many kids we'll have, etc.  I can't believe I married the perfect guy for me.    

And finally...

10.  He is my best friend.  

I told my mom while we were visiting California, "You know how I know I picked the right guy?  I really, genuinely like being around him.  My life is better with him around, and he's absolutely my best friend.  I'm so happy."  She smiled.  She knows I picked the right one too.  I think she knew from Day 1 - June 30th, 2007 - at my band auditions.  The first day I laid eyes on the man that changed and saved my life.  

The love of my life.  My best friend.  My Lobster.  My Foo.  My Husband...and now, the Father to our son, Cooper - who is coming soon!   I can't wait to start another JOURNEY with this incredible man.  Man, he's going to be a good Dad.  He's certainly already the best friend and best husband I could ever ask for. 

     

Meet Cooper Anderson Kambestad

Well folks, I was right - Baby K is officially A BOY!!!

We'd like you to meet Cooper Anderson Kambestad.

Eric and I arrived and went right to the ultrasound room.  The tech was very nice, and accommodating.  Baby was moving around like crazy, but she didn't have a hard time at all getting the information that she needed.  I brought the PINK and BLUE stuffed cookies with us and when the time came to check out the gender area, Eric left the room.  I said to the tech, "It's a boy, huh?"  She said, "Yes, I was so afraid your husband would notice. This little guy has no problem showing it off."  Lol.  Oh Cooper.  I cried, and was so excited to share the news with my wonderful husband.   Eric came back in the room and I handed him a cookie.  After he bit in, he smiled and said, "I thought so.  Today was the first day I had doubts about my guess of it being a girl."  He was so excited and he hugged me.  I cried again.  What a hot mess I am.

We are so overjoyed and excited that we get to call baby boy by his name.  We learned that Cooper weighs about 13+oz (almost a whole pound!), has a heart rate of 151 BPM, has 10 fingers and 10 toes, and all of his organs and spine look great!  He's a healthy lil' guy, and the due date is still on for 9/13/12 - Gigi's birthday, which she is happily willing to give up for baby boy, Cooper.

This mama is doing well too.  I discussed my weight with my doc because she could tell that I was concerned, lol (total gain so far - 9 pounds)...and I just have to make sure not to gain much more over the next 2 months because apparently weeks 30-40 are when Cooper will GROW GROW GROW, which means I will GROW GROW GROW about 1 to 2 pounds a week.  Holy. Yikes.  She didn't seem too worried and said I was doing well, but to watch it.  I am still within range of my 25-35 pound gain goal, but "it's when it gets to 40+, we'll need to worry."   I promptly responded with, "Then there is no need to worry.  I'm NOT putting on over 30..."  Lol.  We talked about my migraines, and the weird heartbeat issue I've been having as well.  She is going to continue to watch me, but thinks that it's the increased hormones, along with little other things like dehydration (which surely must be impossible since I drink at least 2L of water a day!) or high/low blood sugar, etc.  During our next appointment, I will have my Glucose test done (where they make sure I don't have diabetes), and she is also going to do a thyroid test to check on everything.  She also might order for a cardiologist to check me out if I am still having issues.  Other than that - all looks great!!!

Man I can't wait to meet this little guy!

After we left the doctor's office, we went straight to Fed Ex and shipped the BLUE cookies to my folks and to Eric's folks.  I couldn't wait to share the news with everyone.  It was torture being asked by some of my best friends and co-workers - but I stayed strong...ish.  Lol.  We finally got to break the news...I will post the videos later! :)  YAY!

For those wondering how we picked his name:

COOPER - My Grandma's brother, Cooper McCauslen - best man of Grandma & Grandpa Jenkins' wedding.  My Grandpa was one of my best friends and my inspiration.  His eyes sparkled, his smile warmed my heart, he inspired creativity, made me laugh, taught me new things every day, and he was...a man who touched and changed people's lives.  My Grandpa's name was John Oscar Jenkins - and while I love him and those names, we didn't feel that our son was a John or an Oscar.  So, my next thought was to incorporate some names of people in our family...Roy, Tom, Palmer, etc...then I thought of Cooper - which was the winner.
(Sadly, Grandpa J has not been with us since 2001, but Grandma E is doing well at age 92!   My Dad's parents:  Roy passed before I was born, but Jeanne and her husband of many years, Les, are both doing great, too!)

ANDERSON - My maiden name.  I wanted to be sure to honor my immediate family - I love my parents (Eric's in-laws), and I know the role they play in our son's life will be tremendous.

KAMBESTAD - Our family's last name.  We honor our parents (my in-laws) with this last name, and all of the Kambestad's.  I am so glad that our son will continue the Kambestad legacy.  

20 Weeks - We're Halfway There!

(btw - I hate this picture. Like a lot.) :(

HOW FAR ALONG?: 20 (slightly painful) weeks! Halfway there...

TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN?: Too many pounds. I totally fell off the "eating healthy with a few minor cheats" wagon, and went all out cheaty pants in the last week. Woops. Clearly time to get back on track.

MATERNITY CLOTHES: Heck to the yes. Belly has popped. (Was told today by co-workers...lovely.)

STRETCH MARKS?: On my behind, sure. Belly, not yet. Hello gym. We need to become better friends.

SLEEP?: GOT A BODY PILLOW! Pretty stoked. Back to waking up for restroom breaks, but otherwise, it's been nice. I heart our bed.

BEST MOMENT THIS WEEK?: I finished The Hunger Games trilogy - so Eric and I had an awesome date night to see the movie. I love weekends with my hubs. We always find / create fun. Even if it's stayin' in...which it seems we'll be doing a lot of in a few months. ;)

WORST MOMENT THIS WEEK?: We decided to check out a few day care centers to get the ball rolling, per a co-workers suggestion. Apparently there is this thing called...a wait list...that we hadn't even considered. Oops. We've only been to one thus far (with 2 upcoming appointments) and I won't reveal it - but let me say politely - our child will NOT be going to that day care. Not a great neighborhood, old and run down, SMELLY (ew), weird teachers / supervisors...just overall, reallllllly bad. To top off the crap sundae with a rotten cherry - it was expensive, especially for what it was. I had no idea that average day care centers were $1K+ a month. Naive? Maybe... So, now I know and we have something to judge the upcoming 2 appointements against. And something to budget and save for. Crap.

Also, sadly a few folks from work were let go last Friday. That was rough. Some were friends. Close friends. One was on his birthday. Tough. I will pray for them and hope that God lights a path for them to find a new job and happiness asap. I won't say too much about it because I am sooo grateful I have the job that I do...but it is a major bummer.

Finally, I've been having these weird moments where my heartbeat, out of nowhere, will just pump uncontrollably fast and loud. So loud, in fact, that it's all my ears can hear...thud thud thud. I'm not doing anything strenuous, not thinking about anything stressful...just happens out of nowhere. So bizarre. I'll be asking my doc about that tomorrow for sure! And yes, still having migraines. Fioricet is my friend.

MISS ANYTHING?: Cheers. (Vino & Champagne. Even a cocktail, like a vodka tonic or a rum and diet. Or whiskey on the rocks. I'm so weird.) And SUSHI!

MOVEMENT?: Had a little, stopped for a while. Hoping baby is all right. I guess we'll see on Wednesday...Can't wait!

FOOD CRAVINGS?: Crap crap crap. Doritos. Junk Food. Sweets. Crap. Now I see why my doc warned me that some ladies "let it go" in the 2nd trimester, and it's bad. Yikes. Getting my buns to the gym.

ANYTHING MAKING ME QUEASY / SICK?: Same ol'.

GENDER?: TOMORROW!!! Holy cow I'm too excited. I am making gender reveal cookies in both BLUE and PINK, and after our appointment, we'll send the appropriate treats to our folks. EEEE!!!!
http://www.sugarderby.com/blog/2011/3/3/gender-reveal-cookies-hey-baby-hey.html

SYMPTOMS / MOODS?: Migraines. Moods are fine. :)

BELLY BUTTON IN or OUT?: In and huge.

WEDDING RINGS OFF or ON?: On.

HAPPY or MOODY MOST OF THE TIME?: Happy happy happy - but upset that I am getting fat. (I do work out, and walk the dogs...Okay??) Lol...

LOOKING FORWARD TO...?: Obviously tomorrow. Then for all of our upcoming visitors. Chad and Erin in May, Eric's birthday (and some family members), my folks, Eric's folks, and then potentially my baby shower in July!! :) Lots going on. Hoping September will be here before we know it!

WARNING: I wrote this post last night, and woke up on the wrong side of the fat ass bed this morning. I have never felt more fat / uncomfortable / upset in my entire life, and this will likely be the last photo I post. I know I am probably just having a moment - can you say mood swing? - but I have gained, and gained. It's part of the process, I get it. Just...having a day.